fixes #25205 #14873; resets importc obj with nimZeroMem in specializeResetT for refc (#25207)

fixes #25205
fixes #14873

```nim
  type
    SysLockObj {.importc: "pthread_mutex_t", pure, final,
               header: """#include <sys/types.h>
                          #include <pthread.h>""", byref.} = object
      when defined(linux) and defined(amd64):
        abi: array[40 div sizeof(clong), clong]
```

Before this PR, in refc, `resetLoc` generates field assignments for each
fields of `importc` object. But the field `abi` is not a genuine field,
which doesn't exits in the struct. We could use `zeroMem` to reset the
memory if not leave it alone

(cherry picked from commit 02609f1872)

tests/stdlib/tlocks.nim

@@ -9,3 +9,30 @@ import std/assertions
 
 var m = createMyType[int]()
 doAssert m.use() == 3
+
+
+import std/locks
+
+type
+  S = object
+    r: proc()
+
+  B = object
+    d: Lock
+    w: S
+
+proc v(x: ptr B) {.exportc.} = reset(x[])
+
+type
+  Test = object
+    path: string # Removing this makes both cases work.
+    lock: Lock
+
+# A: This is not fine.
+var a = Test()
+
+proc main(): void =
+  # B: This is fine.
+  var b = Test()
+
+main()