refactor(change): do API changes to buffer without curbuf switch

Most of the messy things when changing a non-current buffer is
not about the buffer, it is about windows. In particular, it is about
`curwin`.

When editing a non-current buffer which is displayed in some other
window in the current tabpage, one such window will be "borrowed" as the
curwin. But this means if two or more non-current windows displayed the buffers,
one of them will be treated differenty. this is not desirable.

In particular, with nvim_buf_set_text, cursor _column_ position was only
corrected for one single window. Two new tests are added: the test
with just one non-current window passes, but the one with two didn't.

Two corresponding such tests were also added for nvim_buf_set_lines.
This already worked correctly on master, but make sure this is
well-tested for future refactors.

Also, nvim_create_buf no longer invokes autocmds just because you happened
to use `scratch=true`. No option value was changed, therefore OptionSet
must not be fired.

src/nvim/eval/buffer.c

@@ -301,7 +301,8 @@ void f_bufload(typval_T *argvars, typval_T *unused, EvalFuncData fptr)
   buf_T *buf = get_buf_arg(&argvars[0]);
 
   if (buf != NULL) {
-    buffer_ensure_loaded(buf);
+    swap_exists_action = SEA_NONE;
+    buf_ensure_loaded(buf);
   }
 }