fix(defaults): set 'fsync' #26039

backport #26034

Problem:
'nofsync' may lose data if the system has a hard shutdown. #9888

Solution:
Change default to 'fsync'. This may be revisited in the future when
'nofsync' can be made safer.

Co-authored-by: Ploum <1233155+ploum@users.noreply.github.com>

test/functional/core/fileio_spec.lua

@@ -50,6 +50,7 @@ describe('fileio', function()
 
   it('fsync() codepaths #8304', function()
     clear({ args={ '-i', 'Xtest_startup_shada',
+                   '--cmd', 'set nofsync',
                    '--cmd', 'set directory=Xtest_startup_swapdir' } })
 
     -- These cases ALWAYS force fsync (regardless of 'fsync' option):