refactor(ui): devirtualize the ui layer

- The defined interface for the UI is only the RPC protocol. The original
  UI interface as an array of function pointers fill no function.
- On the server, all the UI:s are all RPC channels.
  - ui.c is only used on the server.
  - The compositor is a preprocessing step for single-grid UI:s
- on the client, ui_client and tui talk directly to each other
  - we still do module separation, as ui_client.c could form the basis
    of a libnvim client module later.

Items for later PR:s
- vim.ui_attach is still an unhappy child, reconsider based on plugin experience.
- the flags in ui_events.in.h are still a mess. Can be simplified now.
- UX for remote attachment needs more work.
- startup for client can be simplified further (think of the millisecs we can save)

src/nvim/api/ui.h

@@ -5,8 +5,10 @@
 
 #include "nvim/api/private/defs.h"
 #include "nvim/map.h"
+#include "nvim/ui.h"
 
 #ifdef INCLUDE_GENERATED_DECLARATIONS
 # include "api/ui.h.generated.h"
+# include "ui_events_remote.h.generated.h"
 #endif
 #endif  // NVIM_API_UI_H