feat(server): set $NVIM, unset $NVIM_LISTEN_ADDRESS #11009

PROBLEM
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$NVIM_LISTEN_ADDRESS has conflicting purposes as both a parameter ("the
current process should listen on this address") and a descriptor ("the
current process is a child of this address").

This contradiction means the presence of NVIM_LISTEN_ADDRESS is
ambiguous, so child Nvim always tries to listen on its _parent's_
socket. This is the cause of lots of  "Failed to start server" spam in
our test/CI logs:

    WARN  2022-04-30… server_start:154: Failed to start server: address already in use: \\.\pipe\nvim-4480-0
    WARN  2022-04-30… server_start:154: Failed to start server: address already in use: \\.\pipe\nvim-2168-0

SOLUTION
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1. Set $NVIM to the parent v:servername, *only* in child processes.
   - Now the correct way to detect a "parent" Nvim is to check for $NVIM.
2. Do NOT set $NVIM_LISTEN_ADDRESS in child processes.
3. On startup if $NVIM_LISTEN_ADDRESS exists, unset it immediately after
   server init.
4. Open a channel to parent automatically, expose it as v:parent.

Fixes #3118
Fixes #6764
Fixes #9336
Ref https://github.com/neovim/neovim/pull/8247#issuecomment-380275696
Ref #8696

src/nvim/eval/typval.c

@@ -1588,8 +1588,6 @@ varnumber_T tv_dict_get_number(const dict_T *const d, const char *const key)
 }
 
 /// Converts a dict to an environment
-///
-///
 char **tv_dict_to_env(dict_T *denv)
 {
   size_t env_size = (size_t)tv_dict_len(denv);