build(macos): restore and test universal build (#20383)

Build tree-sitter parsers for arm64 as well as x86
Check that all created binaries contain both architectures

cmake.deps/cmake/BuildTreesitterParsers.cmake

@@ -4,6 +4,8 @@ function(BuildTSParser LANG TS_URL TS_SHA256 TS_CMAKE_FILE)
   PREFIX ${DEPS_BUILD_DIR}
   URL ${TREESITTER_C_URL}
   DOWNLOAD_DIR ${DEPS_DOWNLOAD_DIR}/${NAME}
+  CMAKE_CACHE_ARGS
+    -DCMAKE_OSX_ARCHITECTURES:STRING=${CMAKE_OSX_ARCHITECTURES}
   DOWNLOAD_COMMAND ${CMAKE_COMMAND}
     -DPREFIX=${DEPS_BUILD_DIR}
     -DDOWNLOAD_DIR=${DEPS_DOWNLOAD_DIR}/${NAME}